Modes of Mod and Modesty

This is not your average "girls-please-don't-wear-tight-skirts" blog post.  I think we are aware of what's modest and what is not.  If you are unaware, just ask someone over the age of 40 at your church to come go through your closet.  There.  Now, I'd like to talk about the misconception that wearing modest clothing means sacrificing style.  This is the opposite of truth.  (That means, it's a lie)  Modest fashion has a name...it's called "Classic."  Look at "Classic" styles throughout the ages and show me something immodest.  (Go ahead.  Google "Classic style fashion images".)  There may be a slightly lower-than-wished-for neckline, but nothing plunging.  There may be an above-the-knee dress, but nothing revealing.  Classy, classic styles are always in and most of the time appropriate for any and every occasion. 

I've also been told that daring personalities simply cannot always dress modestly because modesty is boring.  Really?  What is your style?  Bold?  Dramatic?  Colorful?  Make-a-Statement?  Welcome to this wonderful website I found...  http://www.littlenaturalcottage.com/bold-modesty-fall-fashions-that-defy-frump/  Modesty has nothing to do with personality...It is not only for the boring or the shy or the introverted.  Modesty is a statement of self-respect and standards.  It's been my experience that the most bold and strong of women are those with healthy self-respect and standards.  Having that personality and then dressing like a cougar or desperate bar-fly just nulls and voids all the hard work you've done in being as strong as you are! 

I want to plug the "retro" look for a moment as well.  Mod is not all mini-skirts and peasant blouses.  Check out some of the Rockabilly style sites and pick something amazing that you can be proud of yourself in. 

In summation, I am not against beautiful, caught-off-guard, in-your-face fashion!  I am against degrading yourself and believing that's pretty.

Respect yourself and demand that respect from others through your fashion sense!!