Gold Medalist Mama

Athletes who train for the Olympics are insanely disciplined.  They are focused on one goal and do not deviate from striving toward it.  They maintain a strict regimen and enjoy very few luxuries along the way.  One of the many differences between an Olympic athlete and a Non-Olympic athlete is who they are representing.  They are not representing themselves, a team, or an advertising sponsor as much as they are representing their home country.  This is a huge burden as well as a huge honor.  They are under scrutiny all of the time; their time is not their own.  They must endure impossible expectations and they do it publicly.

As mothers, we are often called to a higher standard of living because our lives are no longer our own either.  We now hold tiny trusts in our arms.  We represent hearts that have been entrusted to us.  We must endure ups and downs in such a way as to remember that we are now living examples of the future for our children.  We are the first female in their lives and will set the pace for their view of mothers, wives, women.

There's no clocking out at the end of the day.  Motherhood requires a lifetime commitment.  We're all in.  Motherhood also requires help.  Olympians not only have physical trainers and nutritionists to make sure they remain in top condition, but they have mental health professionals on stand-by.  Being an Olympian is mentally taxing.  Not only must the athlete stay focused and primed for performance all the time while living in a world of those taking breaks, vacations, adventures, but they must also be willing to choose their sport over relationships.

As a mother, we make the decision to be our children's guide before being their friend.  We must also be willing to get rid of negative relationships that, while might be tolerable for a woman on her own, would be a bad mix with children.

This comparison is more intense than Ninja Mama and Super Mama.  It sounds like being a mother is no fun.  On the contrary.  Fun is part of the deal.  Olympians love their work.  Passion is just as important as commitment...in fact, it's the driving force.  And mamas absolutely must be passionate about loving their littles.

Commitment, discipline, sacrifice, passion.... Welcome to motherhood.  Now get up there and get your well-earned gold medal!